Book · Editorial review
How to Have Confidence and Power in Dealing with People
A classic communication guide whose most constructive use is building confidence through respect, attention and clear conversation.
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The communication premise
Les Giblin presents interpersonal confidence as something that can be developed through understanding people and practicing effective interaction. The publisher describes a practical approach to dealing with people as they are, rather than waiting for everyone else to change. The title's emphasis on power reflects its era and deserves thoughtful interpretation. [1]
Confidence that earns trust
The strongest application is confidence in your ability to listen, express a need and handle a disagreement respectfully. People are easier to understand when you take their concerns seriously. A prepared question can be more useful than trying to dominate a conversation.
The caution lies in turning human relationships into techniques for obtaining compliance. Showing interest merely to gain an advantage is different from caring about the answer. A reader should also resist the idea that every difficult interaction can be fixed by individual charm. Discrimination, unequal authority and abusive behavior require more than a communication adjustment.
This book suits readers who want a starting framework for ordinary social and professional conversations. Test its suggestions against reciprocity: does the other person gain clarity and retain the freedom to disagree? Confidence is most useful when it does not require someone else to feel smaller.
A seven-day listening practice
Choose one routine conversation each day. Ask an open question, listen without preparing an immediate rebuttal, and summarize what you understood. Invite correction before offering advice.
No special tools are needed. Do not turn the exercise into an interrogation or ask for private details that are irrelevant to the relationship. At the end of the week, identify one misunderstanding that was resolved or one commitment made clearer. If useful, share the practice with a team as an optional skill exercise.
Discuss: What is the difference between being influential and being trustworthy?
Sources and review basis
Publisher or author description, with original editorial analysis and a suggested practical experiment. The full book was not supplied.
The practical experiment and discussion questions are Môle FM editorial suggestions. The source links help you examine the book and the claims for yourself.